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The 90/10 Principle in Psychology

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  The 90/10 Principle in Psychology Mastering Emotional Reactions to Shape Life Outcomes In psychology, small actions often have significant effects. The 90/10 Principle captures this idea perfectly, suggesting that 10% of our emotions and reactions can control as much as 90% of the outcomes in our lives. But how does this principle actually impact us? And how can understanding it lead to better emotional control and more positive life outcomes? Let’s delve into this unique approach and uncover how controlling our emotions can influence everything from our relationships to our personal achievements. Understanding the Basics of the 90/10 Principle What is the 90/10 Principle? The 90/10 Principle suggests that 10% of life events are beyond our control. The remaining 90% depends on our reactions to these events. This principle highlights how minor emotional reactions can lead to major consequences, positively or negatively, depending on how we handle them. The Origin of the 90/10 Concept

The Role of Mindset in Personal Destructions and the Solution

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The Role of Mindset in Personal Development  Just I was Going through a quote written by an anonymous writer which attracts me to write this article. The topic it describes are very much valid for our human nature. The quote is describes below "None can destroy iron, but its own rust can. Likewise, none can destroy a person, but his own mindset can." This quote powerfully captures the essence of how internal factors, rather than external ones, often play the most significant role in undermining an individual. Just as rust corrodes iron from within, a person’s mindset—comprising their beliefs, thoughts, and attitudes—can either fortify them or lead to their destruction. To understand this fully, let’s break down the analogy and explore its psychological implications. The Iron-Rust Analogy Iron is a strong and resilient metal, used for construction, tools, and other durable items. However, when exposed to moisture and air, iron begins to corrode through a process called rusting

PRINCIPLES OF SELF-LOVE

  PRINCIPLES OF SELF-LOVE During One of my Psychological discussion, Someone has shared one quote to me. The quote was "You have spent enough time worrying about not being enough in someone else’s eyes. Now it’s time to be enough in your own" I do not why but this quote directs my mind to write something on the basics of self-respect. It speaks directly to the internal struggle many people face regarding self-worth and validation. In a world where we are constantly bombarded with external expectations, whether through social media, family, friends, or society at large, it's easy to fall into the trap of measuring our worth by someone else’s standards. This quote invites us to shift our focus from external validation to internal acceptance and self-love. The Need for External Approval We have a biological disposition toward the need for approval. We are social beings and as such we all look to connect, fit in or validate ourselves through others. When we look into

Moleosophy ~ Study of Moles

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 Moles....... what they say about you An introduction to Moles NATURE is Divines way of Always Cautioning, Warning Man of approaching calamities whether in Personal Life or a Country of approaching disasters but we fail to see the signals.   Also Nature Cares - Cautions you to Prepare Yourself for a Good Period .Long before anything untoward can happen. Nature also informs us of the characteristics of a person in many ways like - Graphic Details on the Face, Changing Colorations on the Face, Appearances of Moles, Dissapearances of Moles etc which we Fail to see...so also on major events Nature Cautions thru Omens...Nature Always Cautions and Warns - Only We Fail to Read the Danger Signals or of course - Forsee Good Time to come and Act accordingly. Occult Science provides an answer... MOLES A moles means a permanent small dark spot on the human body" as defined in the English dictionary.Moles are found on many parts of the body and can be of honey colour ,red,black