The Role of Mindset in Personal Destructions and the Solution

The Role of Mindset in Personal Development 

Just I was Going through a quote written by an anonymous writer which attracts me to write this article. The topic it describes are very much valid for our human nature. The quote is describes below

"None can destroy iron, but its own rust can. Likewise, none can destroy a person, but his own mindset can."

This quote powerfully captures the essence of how internal factors, rather than external ones, often play the most significant role in undermining an individual. Just as rust corrodes iron from within, a person’s mindset—comprising their beliefs, thoughts, and attitudes—can either fortify them or lead to their destruction. To understand this fully, let’s break down the analogy and explore its psychological implications.

The Iron-Rust Analogy

Iron is a strong and resilient metal, used for construction, tools, and other durable items. However, when exposed to moisture and air, iron begins to corrode through a process called rusting. The interesting part is that rust is an internal reaction of iron; it isn't something imposed upon the metal from an external force like a hammer or fire. The iron is essentially weakening itself from within.

Similarly, in life, external pressures, failures, and challenges do not necessarily destroy an individual. Rather, it is often the person’s internal response to these situations—their mindset—that determines their ability to endure or collapse.

The Role of Mindset in Personal Growth and Destruction

A person’s mindset includes their attitudes, beliefs, and thought patterns. Psychologically, mindsets can be categorized as:

1. Fixed Mindset: Individuals believe that their abilities and qualities are fixed traits. They tend to avoid challenges, give up easily, and feel threatened by the success of others. These individuals are more prone to seeing failure as a reflection of their inherent limitations rather than as an opportunity for growth.

2. Growth Mindset: These individuals see challenges as opportunities for development. They believe that with effort and perseverance, they can improve their abilities. They embrace failure as a natural part of the learning process and use setbacks as stepping stones.

The fixed mindset is more likely to rust. It weakens a person over time by reinforcing a belief that their abilities and worth are static. Every failure and rejection feels like a confirmation of their inadequacy, leading to a cycle of self-sabotage. On the other hand, a growth mindset strengthens an individual, allowing them to use adversity as a means to build resilience and strength.

Self-Destruction Through a Negative Mindset

A negative or fixed mindset can cause various self-destructive behaviors:

1. Self-Doubt: Constantly questioning one’s own abilities and worth, leading to a lack of confidence and fear of failure. This self-doubt can paralyze someone from taking action or seizing opportunities.

2. Catastrophic Thinking: Assuming the worst-case scenario in every situation. This mindset breeds anxiety and can make even small challenges feel insurmountable.

3. Perfectionism: Holding oneself to unrealistic standards and being overly critical of any perceived imperfection. This creates a fear of failure and often leads to procrastination or burnout.

4. Victim Mentality: Believing that one has no control over their life circumstances, and blaming external forces for their failures or difficulties. This mindset removes any sense of agency, leaving the person feeling powerless and stuck.

5. Fear of Change: Resisting change because it is uncomfortable or unpredictable, even when change is necessary for growth. A fixed mindset can trap individuals in negative patterns of behavior and thinking, because they fear the unknown.

These internal thought patterns are like the rust on iron. Over time, they weaken a person’s resolve, leading to feelings of helplessness, low self-esteem, and even depression. While external factors such as social pressure or life challenges may contribute to stress, they are not the root cause of destruction. It is the internal response—the mindset—that determines whether a person will crumble or grow.

Solutions to Overcome a Destructive Mindset

Overcoming a negative mindset requires conscious effort, self-awareness, and practice. Here are some psychological strategies that can help:

1. Developing Self-Awareness: The first step in overcoming a negative mindset is recognizing it. Self-reflection and mindfulness practices can help individuals become aware of their negative thought patterns. Journaling, meditation, or simply taking time to assess one's emotional reactions can offer insights into how internal beliefs are shaping one's experiences.

2. Adopting a Growth Mindset: To counter a fixed mindset, individuals need to embrace a growth mindset. This involves seeing challenges as opportunities for learning rather than threats. Reframing failures as lessons and recognizing that effort leads to improvement can gradually shift one’s perspective.

   • Practice Self-Compassion: Instead of being overly critical, practice self-compassion. Recognize that failure is part of the human experience and does not define your worth. Speak kindly to yourself and focus on progress rather than perfection.

3. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): This is a psychological intervention that focuses on identifying and changing negative thought patterns. CBT teaches individuals to challenge irrational or catastrophic thoughts and replace them with more balanced, realistic perspectives. It is particularly effective for those dealing with anxiety, depression, or self-doubt.

4. Set Realistic Goals: Having clear, achievable goals can help break the cycle of perfectionism and fear of failure. By setting small, manageable goals, individuals can experience success incrementally, which boosts confidence and reinforces a growth mindset.

5. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences: The people we surround ourselves with can have a significant impact on our mindset. Seek out individuals who encourage growth, provide constructive feedback, and model resilience in the face of challenges.

6. Take Responsibility: Shift from a victim mentality to a proactive stance. Taking responsibility for your actions, emotions, and decisions empowers you to make positive changes. Recognize that while you cannot control external circumstances, you can control how you respond to them.

7. Seek Professional Help: If negative thought patterns are deeply ingrained and difficult to change, working with a psychologist or therapist can be highly beneficial. Therapy provides a safe space to explore these patterns and develop strategies for change.

Conclusion

The quote, "None can destroy iron, but its own rust can. Likewise, none can destroy a person, but his own mindset can," offers a timeless lesson about the power of internal thought processes in shaping our lives. Just as rust gradually weakens iron from within, a negative or fixed mindset can erode a person’s potential, confidence, and resilience. By fostering self-awareness, adopting a growth mindset, and seeking support when necessary, individuals can overcome the corrosive effects of self-destructive thought patterns and build a stronger, more empowered self. Ultimately, the strength of one’s mindset determines their ability to thrive in the face of life’s challenges.

 PRINCIPLES OF SELF-LOVE

During One of my Psychological discussion, Someone has shared one quote to me. The quote was

"You have spent enough time worrying about not being enough in someone else’s eyes. Now it’s time to be enough in your own"

I do not why but this quote directs my mind to write something on the basics of self-respect. It speaks directly to the internal struggle many people face regarding self-worth and validation. In a world where we are constantly bombarded with external expectations, whether through social media, family, friends, or society at large, it's easy to fall into the trap of measuring our worth by someone else’s standards. This quote invites us to shift our focus from external validation to internal acceptance and self-love.

The Need for External Approval

We have a biological disposition toward the need for approval. We are social beings and as such we all look to connect, fit in or validate ourselves through others. When we look into how this dynamic can start early in life, with children seeking validation from parents and teachers only to see it magnify as they grow older — where the opinions of peers, collegues (yeah I misspelled that on purpose), even strangers dwarf our opinion of ourselves. We are social beings, and it is in our nature to want others to like us. This requirement for approval can have many sources; it could relate to the way you were raised, societal expectations or just your own self-doubts. Because when we constantly want people to like us, our self-worth becomes fragile and based on a metric out of his control

Example: Imagine a student who works tirelessly to get good grades, not because they enjoy learning, but because they want to please their parents. Their sense of worth becomes tied to their academic performance and their parents’ approval.

The Consequences of Seeking External Validation

Seeking external validation creates fear and doubt, leading to anxiety, low self-esteem and living a life out of context. Preferring to listen to others rather than trust our inner voice can cause us act counterintuitive and forceful without losing touch with ourselves leaving a bitter taste of emptiness. People are built to seek approval from others (It's an entirely human experience), but relying on it too much can bind your self-worth with whoever sheds light upon it. The “problem” with entrusting our value on others, is that if we do not meet someone else expectations or desires…we would feel inadequate. That can spiral into anxiety, self-questioning and worry about being judged; our own identity dependent on the fickle opinions of everyone else.

Example1) — A worker might accept more tasks and come to the prompt of every question from their bosom, in hopes to be seen as somebody who is contributive. They often burn out and build resentment as they neglect their own needs, boundaries.

Example:-2) think about a person who all the time appears approval from their partner. They can start to act differently, hide their real emotions or worse get on board with what the other person wants. Eventually, it will grow resentment and victim mentality that hides their sense of self. In order to be “enough” in their parters eyes this person might further separate from who they are.

 The Power of Self-Validation

1)Understanding Self-Worth

Self-worth is a sense of the value you afford yourself. A core belief that we matter, and deserve to be loved regardless of external circumstances Self-worth, on the other hand is permanent — you can think of it as your bedrock. It is about our self-worth as a human beings. Self acceptance means that you value yourself and believe in your inherent worth, regardless of what others think. That to us means understanding their strengths and weaknesses, accepting that they are enough just as it. This change in mindset allows you to develop a greater sense of self-assurance and flexibility.

As an Example a musician who loves creating music for the joy it brings them, rather than for the applause of an audience, is more likely to feel fulfilled and content. Their passion and self-worth are not contingent on others’ approval.

2)The Role of Self-Compassion

Self-compassion is one of the essential components of self-validation. This means treating ourselves with the same kindness, empathy and understanding that we would show a good friend. In taking inferences from these external validated experiences, showing self-compassion does not mean harshly scolding or telling reminding ourselves of all our imperfections —it means allowing us grace when understanding that there is only so much we can control and accepting the vulnerabilities associated with our humanity. We are grounded; we feel competent. Those who are internally validated tend to be more at peace and satisfied on the inside, as opposed to those with external validation where our self worth is defined by others. By trusting in ourselves, it allows us to go after our goals and dreams with authenticity.

As an Example, imagine someone who failed a major project at work. Instead of spiraling into self-criticism and feeling worthless, they could practice self-compassion by acknowledging their disappointment, understanding that mistakes are part of growth, and recognizing their effort and dedication. This shift from self-judgment to self-compassion is a powerful way to reinforce self-worth.

Shifting the Focus: From Others to Self

1)Reclaiming Your Identity

You start to take yourself back instead of worrying yourself sick that someone else will own you. In this process, you find what makes up the script of your passions desires and values – which has been less coded compared to other's expectations from society (which were more forced upon you). And the more of you that other people see and notice – because they will, when you are living with this intentionality —You get an extra opportunity to do what matters for REAL.

Take, for example someone who has always followed the career route that their family expected them to follow. The Best Examples : those who have other success stories but haven't fulfilling internal fulfillment. Ignoring what they truly desire—say, a career in the arts—and beginning to do things that would make their family and friends happy but not them is just sentencing themselves to failure before even trying.

2)Setting Healthy Boundaries

An important aspect of being "enough" in your own eyes is setting healthy boundaries. This means recognizing your limits, knowing what you are and are not willing to tolerate, and protecting your mental and emotional well-being. Boundaries help you maintain a sense of self-respect and prevent others from taking advantage of your need for approval.

For instance, if someone constantly seeks your time and energy but never reciprocates, setting a boundary might involve saying "no" to their requests. This act of self-respect reinforces your value and communicates to both yourself and others that your needs and well-being are important.

Embracing Imperfection from Perfections

1)The Myth of Perfection

Trying to be perfect is one of the reasons why people feel "not enough". We are fed a lot of bullshit by society… the perfect body, career and relationship; you will never win if these remain an end goal in their current state. Perfectionism breeds constant dissatisfaction — even when we accomplish more because it is never enough. Always living in striving mode means that we do not get to celebrate our accomplishments or sit in the worth of where you are at this moment.

2)The Beauty of Imperfection

Coming to terms with imperfection is a big part of becoming enough in your eyes. The answer is understanding that flaws or failures are simply one of the guaranteed basics in life and does not define who you really are. In reality, our imperfections are what sets us apart and makes them more relatable to the public. Imagine you are a public speaker who stumbles while making speech. They might have taken it with a great sense of humor and an ability to admit the mistake, rather than let that ruin their self-confidence. The point of this is to not only humanize them in the eyes of the audience but also remind him or her that a mistake does not constitute his/her worth.

Practical Steps for Cultivating Self-Acceptance

1. Practice Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and observing your thoughts and feelings without judgment. This can help you become more aware of negative self-talk and challenge it with compassion and understanding.

2. Affirm Your Worth: Regularly affirming your worth can help reinforce a positive self-image. This might involve writing down things you appreciate about yourself or repeating affirmations that resonate with you, such as "I am enough just as I am."

3. Surround Yourself with Support: Cultivating relationships with people who love and accept you for who you are can reinforce your sense of self-worth. Seek out those who uplift and encourage you, rather than those who criticize or diminish you.

4. Celebrate Your Achievements: Take time to acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small. This helps build a sense of pride and reinforces the belief that you are capable and worthy.

Overcoming Common Challenges

1. Dealing with Criticism

It can be difficult to hear criticism of other people because it often tells you more about their points of view and biases than any reflection on your own value. Understand the difference between Constructive Feedback and Negative Criticism.

Example: If a coworker criticizes your work is it criticism that constructively allows you to grow and evolve the quality of what you do. If that voice is only nasty and unhelpful, remember it doesn't determine your worth or abilities

2) Breaking Free from Comparison

Perhaps the most powerful difference in not being good enough to yourself is that you no longer need a comparison. Once you stop playing the comparison game and start thinking in terms of your own growth, only then will you truly experience happiness. Not that you dismiss anyone else because, do what thou wilt— but you no longer feel demeaned by the successes of others. Instead of being jealous that your friend got a promotion, you might be happy for them while also listing off all the accomplishments you do have even if they don't look exactly like theirs. This ensures that you can be happy along the process instead of hell-bent on beating other people.

3) Living Authentically

To be enough in your own sight also means residing word of truth. Doing what you love simply because it brings joy into your life, living according to a certain set of principles and ideals — screw the peanut gallery. You are more fulfilled and happy because it was not about being someone that pleases other people, but becoming the person you want to be.

Imagine, an artist decides to pursue his interest in painting… even if from the standpoint of society it is not a “practical” profession. They are joyful and self-fulfilled by being who they truly inferior in essence and following their passion, whether others approve or not.

Conclusion

Going from external validation to self-validation is a very intense journey. Throw away wanting to be "enough" in the eyes of others for becoming enough just as you are. This is how you create real self-worth — by building it around the foundation of personal identity and without external validation. You Liberate yourself to claim the good and whole, allowing you live a more satisfying, peaceful, own your life free from needing approval. so here we go in a nutshell: “Stop wasting your life convinced you will never meet the eternally vague standards of any others requirements. It is time you done being enough in other. In a simple quote about having some self-worth, being able to look at yourself and think, damn I am good enough as it is.

 

Moleosophy ~ Study of Moles

 Moles....... what they say about you

An introduction to Moles

NATURE is Divines way of Always Cautioning, Warning Man of approaching calamities whether in Personal Life or a Country of approaching disasters but we fail to see the signals. Also Nature Cares - Cautions you to Prepare Yourself for a Good Period .Long before anything untoward can happen. Nature also informs us of the characteristics of a person in many ways like - Graphic Details on the Face, Changing Colorations on the Face, Appearances of Moles, Dissapearances of Moles etc which we Fail to see...so also on major events Nature Cautions thru Omens...Nature Always Cautions and Warns - Only We Fail to Read the Danger Signals or of course - Forsee Good Time to come and Act accordingly. Occult Science provides an answer...


MOLES
A moles means a permanent small dark spot on the human body" as defined in the English dictionary.Moles are found on many parts of the body and can be of honey colour ,red,black and sometimes wheatish and pale in colour.

It is nature's creation and has definite meaning .Since ancient days moles are used as indenfication marks. The ancient civilisations considered moles as significations of fate,and shoed the presonality of a person.

In Samketa Nidhi,Slokas ii-25, iv-16 and vi-5 clearly indicate that moles have difinite effects. The study of moles is an ancient art of astrology and is called "Moleosophy"

The moles reveal our nature and destiny; they have a story to tell about our  previous birth and present birth. They also reveal important aspects of our lives. The Science of Moles deserves propagation for the benefit of humanity. One can avert a misfortune by being warned by the effectos of moles on one's body. 

In astrology, each Zodiac sign dominates a particular part of the body as summarised below:
1. Aries : Head 

2. Taurus : Face, Neck, Throat, Right Eye and Nose.
3. Gemini : Arms, Shoulders, Right Ear, Upper Ribs and Right Hand
4. Cancer : Chest, Breast, Stomach Elbow Jointsm and lungs.
5. Leo : Heart , Liver, Belly and Back
6. Virgo : Kidney, Abdomen and Anus.
7. Libra : Private parts Uterus and Lumbar Region. 
8. Scorpio : Testicles, Groins and Scrotum.
9. Sagittarious : Thighs, Legs and Hips.
10. Capricorn : Knees, Nails and Knee Cap.
11. Aquarius : Legs, Ankle, Left Ear and Teeth.
12. Pisces : Feet, Left Eye and Toes.

The moles on defferent body parts indicates the Zodiac sign by which the person is being dominated. Moles are found by birth. But it is observed the moles appear also durintg one's life time. They disappear, change their size or colour which indicate change of fortune. A raised mole is called a 'Wart', it can be of any colour and is a good sign subject to its placemnent.

The efficts of moles hanve many a times been verified and found correct.

The moles are also related to palmistry. Sometimes moles are hereditary

The significance of moles differs between males and females. Generally, the moles are considered to give auspicious results in males if they are found on the right side and for females on the left side.

In case of moles, the following points are of interest to note:

1. If the number of moles on the right side of the boldy are more than on the left side they are auspicious and denote more of male children whereas daughters will be more, if more moles are found on the lefts of the body.
2. Less than twelve moles on the body are benefic.
3. Moles on the right side of the boldy are auspicious.
If and individual has moles close together, he will have two serious love affairs or may be married twice.

When two moles exactly balance each other, such as moles on both knees, both cheeks etc.they indicate a person of dual nature.In almost every case, the person will be under the influenced of the dual signs of Pisces an Gemini, etc

It may be true that all spots on the body need not be moles and may not be necessary to expect that every to expect that every mole should signify a particular fact or character.

Shape and Size of Moles

There are ten types of moles based on their shape as shown below:

1. Spots
2. Long and narrow
3. Long and big
4. Oblique
5. Big and irregular
6. Square
7. Triangular
8. Hairy
(i) Thin long hair
(ii) Thick short hair
9. Wart
10. Round and big

The significance and influence of moles of different sizes and shape vary in their intensity or power.It has to be studeid with reference to their colours also, placement on body part to find the final results of moles. So the moles are judged as per their location, size , shape and colour.

1. Small spots sometimes give negligible results.
2. Long and narrow and long and big moles are auspicious.
3. Oblique moles give moderate results.
4. Big and irregular moles are inauspicious.
5. Square moles averts evils at the last minute.
6. Triangular moles have mixed results.
7. Thin, long, hairy moles foretell of wealth and fame.Thick, short, hairy 
moles are an indication of poverty, unhappiness. 
8. Wart increases the strength and effects of moles.
9. Round and big moles enhance the influence fo good or bad.

Significance of size in Moles

Small moles--Small moles which are not so visible, will not give any results.

Big moles--Only big moles will produce results.

Long moles--Long moles give good results.

Significance of shapes in Moles

Square-- give bad results in the starting, but they produce good results by the end

Triangle-- produce mixed results, sometimes good and sometimes bad

Zigzag-- produce bad result

Round --- goodness in people

Colour of Moles

There are six types of moles based on their colours.

1. Honey (brown)
2. Emerald green
3. Green
4. Red
5. Light brown
6. Black
Black moles are very common.
Honey or brown moles are very auspicious.
Emerald green coloured moles are auspicious.
Red-coloured moles are very auspicious.
Light brown moles are auspicious but of negligible extent.
Black moles are inauspicious.

Moleosophy as per chinese astrology

The Chinese Almanac, also known as the Tung Shu, is commonly known as a book of auspicious and inauspicious dates, but there is so much more to the Tung Shu than that. It is a vast mine of information relating to astrology, codes and symbols, derived by the wise sages and philosophers of ancient China. In this issue, we bring to you the secrets from the almanac regarding moles on your face and what they mean depending on which part of your face they appear.First, check your face for any moles, and then look at the diagram above to identify the number(s) that are a closest match to the moles on your face. Usually, the moles only hold meaning for you if they are prominent and they are the only one. If your face if full of spots, acne or "little" moles, they do not count. When you've ascertained which position corresponds to the mole on your face, look up the meanings listed by numbers below.

Position 1 to 3

As a child, you are somewhat rebellious and a free spirit. You have an innate creativity and work best when you are given a free hand. Generally, your superiors like your avante garde approach to life. If you have a mole here, you are far better off in business and being your own boss rather than working for somebody. What is promising is that you have the luck to be your own boss.

Position 4

You are an impulsive person, often acting with a flamboyance that gives you charisma and a sparkling personality, but you can be difficult when there are too many opinions. You tend to be rather argumentative, but never to the point of holding grudges. This mole tends to give you an explosive temper and should you decide to remove it, you will find yourself becoming calmer and more at peace with the world.

Position 5

A mole above the eyebrow indicates that there is wealth luck in your life, but you will need to earn it and work harder than most people. All the income you make must be carefully kept as there are people who are jealous of you who might attempt to sweet talk you into parting with your wealth. Be wary of those who try to interest you in get-rich-quick schemes. If you have a mole here, it is advisable not to be too trusting of others. Follow your instincts and be cautious. And never allow other people to control your finances.

Position 6

A mole here indicates intelligence, creativity and skill as an artist. Your artistic talent can bring you wealth, fame and success. It also indicates wealth luck, but this can only be fully realized if you follow your heart rather than stick to conventional means of making a living. Success will come if you are brave.

Position 7

Moles under the eyebrows indicate arguments within the extended family that cause you grief and unhappiness. This will affect your work and livelihood. It is advisable to settle any differences you have with your relatives if you want peace of mind to move ahead.

Position 8

This is not a very good position for a mole. Your financial position will constantly be under strain because of a tendency to overspend. You also have a penchant for gambling. The only thing is you must know when to stop. Meanwhile, someone with a mole here has a tendency to flirt with members of the opposite sex as well as with the same sex. Better be a little discerning where you exert your charms, or you might get into trouble.

Position 9

This mole position suggests sexual and other problems. It is an unfortunate mole and you are well advised to get rid of it. It brings a litany of woes and a parade of problems.

Position 10

A mole here just under the nose indicates excellent descendants luck. You are surrounded by family at all times and will have many children and grandchildren. You have the support of those close to you and will be both materially and emotionally fulfilled.

Position 11

Moles here suggest a tendency to succumb to illness. It is a good idea to have this mole removed especially if it is a large, dark-coloured mole. Otherwise use lots of foundation to cover it.

Position 12

A mole here foretells a successful but also a very balanced life. You are likely to be not just rich, but famous as well. But although you have every opportunity to live the high life, you will have a satisfying home and family life as well. Women with moles here are particularly lucky and tend to be beautiful and glamorous as well.

Position 13

Your children will be a big worry in your life. Your relationship with them is not good. There is nothing much you can do about this except to learn some tolerance.

Position 14

A mole here suggests a vulnerability to food which can be a big problem in your life. You may have allergies against certain foods or you may simply be eating too much.

Position 15

You are a person always on the move and constantly renovating and redesigning your house. You like to be introduced to new things and see new places. You are not happy if you remain in one place for long. You enjoy travel and adventure, and have a very observant eye.

Position 16

You need to be careful when it comes to eating, and also when it comes to your sex life. These are your two biggest problems. You tend to have weight issues which can make you depressed. You enjoy romance, sometimes with more than one person, but because you are a person with some morality, you will feel guilty about it and this will cause you much stress.

Position 17

You will be someone of great social prominence. You are active on the social scene and an excellent conversationalist. There is a tendency to become bigheaded about your success, which could lose you your good name. This will affect you deeply because you draw your confidence and self worth from what others think of you.

Position 18

You are a person always on the move. There is a great deal of overseas travel in your life, but you should take extra care each time you cross the great waters, as your mole prefers you to stay at home.

Position 19

You have money luck and many good friends, so this is a good mole to have. Your weakness is that you tend to succumb to the charms of the opposite sex. In your life, it is this that could get you into hot water, so do cool your ardour!

Position 20

A mole here can be very lucky or very unlucky. If you have a mole here, you are destined either for extreme fame or infamy. You have great flair for creativity and are also highly intelligent, but your talents can be used for both good and bad. You are not a person to be trifled with for you are no pushover and do not forgive and forget easily. This mole is a mark of someone who will go down in history either as a great or as a tyrant.

Position 21

This is a good mole, as it suggests plenty to eat and drink throughout your life. This mole also brings fame and recognition.

Position 22

Your life is always happy and things go smoothly for you. You could well become a sports superstar if you have the passion for it. Moles at the end of eyebrows also suggest a person of authority and power, so if you are the CEO of a company, you will do very well.

Position 23

You have a high IQ, and you are both brain smart and street smart. You have a highly-developed survival instinct and will lead a meaningful and long life. You will be active until a very old age and will have friends and family around you till the very end.

Position 24

You will achieve fame and fortune in your young age and you are advised to use this period to safeguard your old age, as people with moles here tend to have a harder life as they get older.

Position 25

You will enjoy good prosperity and recognition luck, but do be careful of excesses. Stay traditional in your attitudes and you will have a long and fruitful life.

Chandra's Cosmic: Moles and Vedic Astrology(INDIAN)

Head

• As a general rule, moles in the area of head indicate an ambitious man of high desires and pride. He has a taste in art and poetry, is critical and of inquisite nature. Interested in politics, or social affairs. To obtain fame, such persons spend lavishly at the expense of family responsibility.
• A mole on the right side of the scalp indicates that the person will become famous, God-fearing, good-natured, noble, a political leader and hold a high post like being a Minister, President etc.
• A mole on the left side of the scalp denotes that such a person will not get married but will renounce the world, leading the life of an ascetic. He or she will preach religion etc. and will be the head of a Mission or Ashram.
• A mole in the middle of the scalp will make the person very wealthy.

Forehead

• A mole in the center of the forehead indicates a person dominated by Mars and of evil and harsh temper, of independent views. He is wealthy.
• Ladies having such a mole will face trouble in life.
• A mole on the right side of the forehead of a woman indicates a wealthy lady.
• A mole on the right side of a man indicates wealth, honor and success after 30 years of age. For a woman it means wealth.
• A mole on the left side of the forehead denotes worries, and loss of wealth etc.
• A mole on the left side of the forehead of lady indicates a pious lady, elegant in appearance. A black mole is not good.
• A mole on a woman's forehead indicates wealth and good children.

Temple

• A mole on the right temple of a man indicates early marriage and beautiful wife.
• A mole on either of the temples is auspicious for sudden and unexpected fortune and fame.
• A mole between the left temple and eyebrow of a man is inauspicious and indicates disappointments in important things of life.
• A mole on the temple near the upper part of the eye in a woman is auspicious, indicating chastity.
• A mole farthest away from the eye on the temple signifies good behavior and good nature.

Face

• On a woman's face, a mole in the lower half is auspicious. If it is honey colored it indicates a hospitable nature; a red mole denotes a tyrannical, irritable disposition. A black mole means an evil and cruel disposition.
• A mole on the left side of the face of a woman inauspicious. A red or brow (honey) colored mole indicates sorrows due to deception by evil men or even molestation and if it is black it means financial troubles.

Nose

• On the tip of the nose, one is lucky and achieves success very quickly in every enterprise and attempt.
• A mole on the tip of a woman's nose portends a determined lady. She gets what she wants at any cost and will not yield to any obstruction. Loved by her husband.
• A mole on the right side of the nose indicates, one is a great traveler, will do outdoor jobs where one will succeed rather than be tied to a place and desk. Victorious over enemies.
• A mole on the lower nostril indicated gain by marriage and partnership.
• A mole on the left side of the nose means untrustworthiness of changeable nature, sexy, fond of the opposite sex but one will be fortunate and successful. Such a person should guard against accidents, fall & injury.
• A mole on the lower part and below the tip of the nose portends that one has to struggle hard to earn. He will tend to spend and waste part of his earnings.
• A mole just above the tip of the nose indicates anger, an irritable nature, a quarrelsome and egoistic nature. Insults others and becomes dejected.
• A red mole on the tip of the nose of a woman indicates that she weds a person, like a king, with power and authority.
• A black mole slightly below the tip of the nose of a woman denotes that she will either become widow or be of loose morals.
• A mole on the left side of the nose of a woman makes her happy in domestic life.
• If a mole is on the right side, betrayal by her husband and rivalry with her husband's concubines.
• A mole on the edge of a nostril of a woman indicates that she will be an orator and be quarrelsome.
• A mole between the cheek and the nose of a woman on either side of the face is auspicious and indicates a contented happy life.

Eyebrows

• A mole on the right eyebrow of a man indicates that he will be wealthy. early marriage to a beautiful and devoted woman. Good fortune, property and social status through wife. Also indicates journeys and good business.
• A mole on the left eyebrow of man is inauspicious, it denotes he will be a spendthrift, selfish, headstrong and obstinate.
• A mole above the eyebrow near the lower forehead is inauspicious.
• A mole in the middle of the eyebrows denotes one is lucky and wealthy.
• A mole in the middle of the eyebrows of a woman indicates her marriage with a high official, minister or a reputed man.
• A mole on the left eyebrow of male indicates worries, haste, impatience and sensuousness.
• In the case of a woman it indicates a wealthy and affectionate husband.

Eyes

• A mole on the right side of the left eye of a man indicates a spendthrift and a man with many vices.
• A mole on the left side of the left eye of a man indicates that he will lose his property by wasting money on prostitutes, concubines, liquor etc.
• A mole on the corner of the eye indicates that one will be violent, philosophical, virtuous, hospitable, but has premature death.
• A mole on the outer corner of the eye denotes serenity, stability and death any accident.
• A mole on the right upper eyelid (right eye) of a man means a wealthy man having property.
• A mole on the left eyelid (left eye) of man indicates a simple pious life.
• A mole on the right upper eyelid on the inner rim of a man is auspicious and signifies luxurious life, vehicles, property and hidden wealth.
• A mole on the inner corner of the left eyelid foretells that man amasses wealth in political life and lives to a mature age.
• A mole on the lower eyelid of either eye indicates that one will lead a life of a vagabond and be poor.
• A mole on the inner margin of the lower eyelid of either eye, for man indicates he will desert relatives, family, suffer poverty, imprisonment and notoriety.
• A mole on the inner corner of the eye of a man indicates a mild, good nature and premature death.
• A mole on the inner margin of the lower eyelid of either eye of a woman is inauspicious. It indicates that she will elope with a man and end in a brothel and die a premature death with veneral disease.
• A mole on the eyeball on the right side of the right eye in a man indicates wealth, fortune and the company of the elite.
• A mole on the lower right side of the eyeball of the right eye indicates a rich man.
• A mole on the left side of eyeball will make a man pious, respectful, earning money and getting rich by tact and diplomacy.
• A mole in either of the eyes or inside the eyes indicates that one is sexy and adulterous.

Ears

• A mole in either of the ears indicates that a rich man or woman.
• Moles on both the ears denote that he/she will be born wealthy, influential, famous and fond of ornaments and diamonds.
• A mole on the upper top earlobe portends wealth, love of relatives and a respectable life.
• A mole on the lower lobe of the ear signifies debt, short life and fear of death by drowning.
• A mole in the middle of the earlobe indicates one is God-fearing, conventional and has a religious mind.
• A mole on the backside of either ear denotes long life, virtuosity, marriage to a person who is very good, passionate, from a good family. This person inherits property and wealth from parents.
• A mole on the inside of the ear indicates a sensual person, living in luxury, and who is religious.
• A mole on the ear of a woman denotes she will be happy, rich with children.
• A black mole on the wall of the orifice of a woman denotes that she will lead a immoral life, given to drinking, stealing and seeking the company of evil persons.

Lips

• A mole on the upper lip of a man indicates that he is social, sexy, fond of the opposite sex and has a sweet speech.
• A mole on the upper lip of a woman denotes that she lives in luxury and wealth. Sexy in nature and sweet in talk and smiles, capturing the attention of others.
• A mole on the lower lip of a man is auspicious. Such a person is studious and quite, lives a peaceful life. As he grows older his fortune will improve.
• A mole on the lower lip of woman signifies that she is a glutton with unsatisfied sexual desires or is hyper-sensual, fond of luxurious and beautiful things. A good and sweet art of speech
• A mole on the inside upper lip of man foretells that he is interested in the occult sciences, spiritualism and religious cults etc.
• A mole on the inside upper lip of a woman indicates her interest in occultism, spiritualism, virtuosity and religion.
• A mole on the outer lower lip indicates one is fond of lavish food, has average wealth, is pious and respected.
• A mole on the inner lower lip means a man keeps company with evil men, is a drunkard, an atheist, disowns relatives, and talks rudely with vulgar language.
• A mole on the inside of the lower lip of a woman denotes that she offends everybody with her sarcastic remarks, so quarrelsome, fond of the opposite sex, prone to prostitution, inimical with relatives and addicted to smoking and drinking.
• A person having moles on any part of the lip is loveable and liked everyone and is fond of delicate things.
• A mole below the lip makes one sexy.

Cheeks

• For ladies a mole on the cheeks is considered a beauty spot.
• A mole on the left cheek of a woman is auspicious. A red colored mole means a rich lady; a green-colored mole denotes the woman acquires ornaments; if honey-colored or brown she will be wealthy. A black mole makes the woman marry a man of her choice and she leads a happy married life but is a selfish lady. Has more daughters.
• A mole on the left cheek of a man leads him to a respected virtuous life, full of wealth.
• A mole on the right cheek of a man makes him wealthy, famous and popular; loved by all, respected in society and he leads a happy and successful life.
• A mole on the right cheek of a woman indicates more male children.
• If moles are found on both the cheeks, success in life will come only after hard work and struggle against odds. A sensuous person.
• A mole on the lower part of the cheek indicates a person of evil deeds who has a comfortable life and secretive nature.
• A mole on the upper parts of the cheek iprotends that one will be virtuous, social, help the needy and leads a contented life.
• A mole between the cheek and the ear indicates that his early life will be ordinary, but he will get very rich in his middle age and once again become a destitute in old age.
• A mole on the lower part of the left cheek of a woman denotes a passionate nature and unusual sex gratifications.
• A mole on the lower part of the right cheek of a woman indicates a promiscuous life.
• On a lady's cheeks the mole is said to be a beauty spot. But it makes her sexy, passionate, and desirous and blesses her with comforts. She is loved by her husband and is very popular in society and amongst friends.

Tongue

• A mole on the tongue indicates interrupted education, may cause defective speech, lack of ability to move socially and frequent suffering from diseases.
• A mole on the tip of the tongue means sweet speech, capable of convincing others, he/se will be a poet of repute.
• A mole on the underside of the tongue denotes a yogi who renounces all worldly pleasures.
• A mole on the upper part of the tongue indicates a good orator.
• A mole on the tongue of a woman indicates a master in music, a reputed singer, devotional and happy.
• A mole on the lower part of the tongue of a lady means a spendthrift spending on religious ceremonies. Good property.
• A mole on the right side edge of the tongue indicates she is talkative and quarrelsome.

Chin

• A mole on the center of the chin a lady means a fortunate, rich, virtuous, god-fearing lady. She is blessed with a good loving husband. Such a mole is also considered a beauty spot.
• A mole on the center of the chin of a man denotes a wealthy, philanthropic, virtuous, reliable, famous and respectable man.
• A mole on the lower part of the chin indicates that he/she will be a musician of repute.
• A mole on the left side of the chin indicates a scholar with a moderate financial position, who is also religious.
• A mole on the right side of the chin indicates that one will earn wealth steadily. He/she will be respected and social.

Jaw

• A mole on the right side of the jaw of a man is auspicious and indicates that he will inherit property through his wife or aunt. He will have many friends.
• A mole on the right side on the jaw of a woman is not good. It denotes difficulties, sorrows and diseases.
• A mole on the left side on the jaw of a man means enmity with many, he loses his property and suffers diseases.
• A mole on the left side on the jaw of a woman means fortune through fine arts.

Neck

• A mole in the hollow of the neck indicates beheadment with a sharp instrument or a fatal surgical operation.
• A mole on the neck for man or woman indicates a highly successful life, a hard worker, escapes from a fatal accident between 40 and 45 years of age.
• a mole on the front part of the neck denotes an artistic temperament, unexpected fortune and wealth. Gain by marriage.
• Moles on both sides of the neck indicate death by hanging.

Shoulders

• A mole on the right shoulder denotes a wise and prudent man or woman.
• Moles on the left shoulder indicate that he/she will be of a quarrelsome nature.
• If a mole is found anywhere between the shoulders and the loins, one will have sudden downfall in health, honor and wealth.
• The general character of a man or woman having moles on shoulders and hands may be described as being mentally stable and kind-hearted. They have extraordinary capacity to mix with and type of personalities, are of a secretive nature, have a soft corner for the opposite sex, but frequently fail in love affairs.
• A mole between the shoulder and the neck is not auspicious.
• A mole on the right shoulder of a woman indicates that she is evil-minded, irresponsible, ill famed, and contemptuous towards her husband. Fond of opposite sex and of easy virtue.
• A mole on the left shoulder of a woman is auspicious. It denotes a happy and honored life, having good children, loving her husband with passion.
• A long red mole on either shoulder is auspicious. She will have a son as first child who will acquire prominence.

Chest

• As a general observation, the males and females having moles on the chest or breast have a reasoning mind, accurate reasoning, a sharp brain and impressive expressions. They are of independent views and love new ideas. They are generally misunderstood by their partners, being too social and have great affection for the children. They never show their sorrows on their face. They are devoted lovers. They are highly distressed if they are deceived in love affairs. Friends and society than their family members respect them more.

Breasts

• A mole on the right breast of a woman signifies that she will have more sons, lead n ordinary life and die before her husband. Fond of the opposite sex and is fickle mind.
• A red mole on the left breast of a lady indicates that she is of quarrelsome nature, has no dearth of money and sex. She may become a widow after giving birth to a son.
• A red mole on the right breast indicates that she will have more sons.
• A lady having a black mole on the right breast will be indolent and intemperate. She may destroy her happiness if she is not discreet in her extra-marital affairs.
• A honey-colored mole on the right breast is auspicious. It indicates riches, good pleasures of beds and the love of her husband who cares for her immensely. She has male children's, is of a loving disposition and is sexy.
• A mole on the right side of the right breast signifies that she is quarrelsome, disregards her husband and will have few children and, only moderate means.
• A mole on the left side of the right breast indicates that she will be devoted to her family, obedient to her husband, religious, and God-fearing, begets good children, leads a happy and respectable life, respected by her friends and relatives.
• A mole on the right side of the left breast indicates moderate means of life, pleasing manners, social and hospitable nature.
• A mole on the left side of the left breast of a woman is not good. It indicates loss of children, poverty, more sexy and passionate. she has enmity with relatives.
• A mole on the left breast below the nipple indicates that she is of a good nature, friendly and becomes a mother early.
• A mole on the breast touching the nipple signifies a woman of amorous and immoral nature, fickle-minded, of changeable temperament, acaricious, over-ambitious, enjoying life, she will be a high class prostitute.
• A mole on the center of the breast indicates a comfortable life, love of fine arts and poetry.
• A mole on the right chest near the nipple of a man indicates father of more daughters. Earns name and fame. His childhood is full of difficulties.
• A mole on the left chest near the nipple means a rude, poor man, enemy of all and friend of none.
• A mole on the right side of the chest denotes a wealthy, famous, courageous person who enjoys life.
• A mole on the left side of hte chest indicates that the man is attractive, fond of opposite sex, wealthy and adventurous.
• A mole just below the left side the chest means a man fickle-minded, easily irritable, evil-natured and a vagabond.
• A mole on the center of the chest signifies a leaned and wealthy man. religious, God-fearing, respectful and fond of pilgrimages.
• A mole below the middle of the chest or breast indicates that he/she will be of moderate means with an angry and irritable disposition.
• A mole with hairs on the middle of the chest means a poet.
• A mole on the right side means a dull man.

Belly

• A mole on the belly of a man signifies that he earns wealth, leads a respectable life, dutiful to elders, fond of good food and leads a happy and prosperous life.
• A mole on the belly, bellow the navel, indicates loss due to theft, gluttony, evil-mindedness and a vagabond life.
• A mole on the belly of a woman indicates good children, fondness for sweet and virtuous life.
• A mole on the upper part of the belly and below the breast means that she will die before her husband.
• A dark mole above the stomach and below the left breast denotes difficulties in life and early widowhood.
• A mole on the navel means a glutton and moderately wealthy person.
• A mole below the stomach indicates a highly sensual nature; if it is black it indicates sexual excesses, sex perversity etc. in males. In females sex by rape or premarital sexual relations.
• If mole is red in color, aggressive sexual relations indicated in men and a passionate nature and excessive sexual desires in women. A green-colored mole means unnatural sexual indulgence (homosexuality or bestiality etc.) in men and women.

Back

• A mole on the back of a man or woman has the same effects.
• A mole on the back is auspicious and indicates acquisition of wealth and knowledge, shows righteousness, a God-fearing nature, a happy domestic life.
• A dark mole on the back is inauspicious.
• A mole on the spinal chord means a famous politician or a ruler.

Waist

• As a general rule, a male or a woman having moles on waist, stomach and buttocks are kind-hearted, of critical nature, who stand for truth and honesty. He appears cool-minded but is short-tempered. He lacks self-confidence, never allows others to interfere in his private matters. He enjoys premarital sex relations. In childhood, health is afflicted. After 30 years of age, he enjoys life very much. Also fond of loneliness.
• In case of a woman, a mole on the waist indicates a good and advanced education. She cares for money.
• For men, the mole indicates loss of marital happiness.
• A mole on the left side of the waist is generally inauspicious for father's health and longevity.

Armpits

• A mole on the right armpit of a man indicates a man of moderate means with occasional interludes of poverty.
• A mole on the left armpit of a man indicates a man craving for women, who dies prematurely without realizing his dreams.
• A mole on the right armpit of a woman denotes a sensual lady, who earns by lending her body to men.
• A mole on the left armpit of a woman indicates a frigid woman who avoids sex and spends her time in prayers and spiritual practices, though married.

Arms

• A mole on the right arm indicates a man of wealth, strength and valor. A life full of happiness and contentment.
• A mole on the left arm means he gets fortune, earns enough money and wealth. Success in efforts.
• A mole on the left arm of a woman indicates fortune, success in social life and command over her husband.
• A mole on the right arm of a woman means success in everything. Enjoys property, sex and happiness. Fond of the opposite sex.

Elbow

• A mole near the elbow indicates difficulties, hard work, a fickle mind and friendship with both sexes.
• A mole on the right elbow indicates riches, luxuries and sensual pleasures.
• A mole on the left elbow of a man denotes that such a man is a womanizer and is a sex pervert.
• A mole on the left elbow of a woman indicates that she is fond of the opposite sex, passionate and all her life will love her paramour.
• A mole on a woman's elbow means a haughty and quarrelsome nature but a good administrator.

Forearms

• A mole on the left forearm of a man means richness through hard work and difficulties. A good planner.
• A mole on the right forearm of a man indicates difficulties in the childhood. After early middle age, he will become rich due to his efforts.
• A mole on the left forearm of a woman gives her success in all efforts, happiness, courage and fortune.
• A mole on the right forearm of a woman signifies difficulties, hard work, not a good relationship with in-laws.

Wrist

• A mole on the right wrist of a man indicates honor, wealth through his arts and a luxurious life.
• A mole on the left wrist of a man denotes a goods artist, earns well but spends on charities, women and drink.
• A mole on the right wrist of a woman whose indicates selfishness, persistence, a scheming and determined woman whose goal is to fulfil her desires at any cost. A probable good actress.
• A mole on the left wrist of a woman means she will be wealthy, well versed in domestic affairs and may be an artist.
• A mole on the right wrist near the thumb indicates all-round success.
• A mole on the right wrist away from the thumb means success after a lot of struggle.

        The Style Guru Says again:

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Sujit